Re: What does the long term hold for PN sufferers
Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 3:42 am
Hi
I am a male PN sufferer. I wanted to ask if a someone like me can get married as sexual relations has been non existent all my life. The PN pain obviously makes it very difficult to derive any pleasure - let alone conduct normal relations. It has hindered me living and working as per normal. That is why I'm wondering if anything can happen whilst I have this - lets face it - possibly for the rest of my life.
It wouldn't be fair on the lady anyway. But prospective ladies would stay away anyway when they learn I have this condition.
I've had this condition from about 14 years old - I am now 41. My siblings are both married and they are both 9 and 10 years younger than me. I just don't know what to do. I have found it next to impossible to do a job so I am going in to business for myself. But even that takes time to set up - and I have been relying on my parents support so far. So that is another hindrance ofcourse. But I wanted to know if anyone has been married with this and is it worth me pursuing this avenue.
Thanks
I am a male PN sufferer. I wanted to ask if a someone like me can get married as sexual relations has been non existent all my life. The PN pain obviously makes it very difficult to derive any pleasure - let alone conduct normal relations. It has hindered me living and working as per normal. That is why I'm wondering if anything can happen whilst I have this - lets face it - possibly for the rest of my life.
It wouldn't be fair on the lady anyway. But prospective ladies would stay away anyway when they learn I have this condition.
I've had this condition from about 14 years old - I am now 41. My siblings are both married and they are both 9 and 10 years younger than me. I just don't know what to do. I have found it next to impossible to do a job so I am going in to business for myself. But even that takes time to set up - and I have been relying on my parents support so far. So that is another hindrance ofcourse. But I wanted to know if anyone has been married with this and is it worth me pursuing this avenue.
Thanks