thanks for ur quick reply,i'm all new to this, as i only just found out about p.n in may this year even though the pain started in 2008 and got told for the last 3 years i was imagining it all

,so i guess i just got used to the pain and suffering going on forever,that fact i have at last got an appointment to help treat this instead of just suffering with no help has made made a huge difference to me and given me a bit of hope at long last,so i guess i don't see the next few months as waiting for an appointment as a long time in comparison to what i have waited, i got used to just talking pain killers to take the edge off of things,although i couldn't really understand why she couldn't ring him and ask him.
but he did write in his referral note(i was sent a copy of it) that i could try duloxetine so i'm sure the g.p would be fine with giving me a try with that at least, she said she's not sure how to treat the pgad side of things as she has never come across anyone with it b4!! she was nice about it i think she just didn't want to go against his wishes with the lidoncaine,but i guess i could write to him as ask if it's ok to try it.it couldn't hurt so thanks for that advice
what dose of Duloxetine are you on? i only ask as i see you take tramadol too,are you allowed to mix the both then? i take my a.d's mainly to sleep as they have a sedative in them and when the pain is bad these pills do help me get some sleep,but i wouldn't mind swapping them to duloxetine as long as they help knock me out too.
i do understand that none of us will prob be pain free and just need to come up wiv ways of making it a bit less so we can live. thanks for all the great advice you have given me,i've seen you name come up a few times,you so helpful to people, esp us newbies that don't fully understand it all yet,b4 all this happened i hardly ever went to the dr's for anything, so i have no idea how everything works with g.p's or what to say and ask them, so i'm very grateful for all your help, mandy x