Health Organization for Pudendal Education

I HAVE INTERSTITIAL CYSTITIS FROM LYME DISEASE. I LATER HAD MY EGGS HARVESTED AND RETRIEVED 8 YEARS AGO THAT LEFT ME WITH TERRIBLE PUDENDAL NEUROPATHY. WHAT SHOULD I DO HERE FOLKS BECAUSE I CANNOT SIT THROUGH A MOVIE NOR CAN I DRIVE THE CAR WITHOUT HAVING TO URINATE 3 TABLESPOONS OF URINE. ITS NOT FUNNY. I HAVE TO PULL OVER ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD EVERY 20 TO 25 MINUTES AND SQUAT TO URINATE 3 TABLESPOONS. HOW HUMBLING CAN THAT BE IN LIFE. THIS MAKES ME WANT TO CRYOABLATE THIS PUDENDAL NERVE AND GET A NEW ONE. MY QUESTIONS TO EVERYBODY IS HOW IN WORLD DOES A DR. KNOW IF THE PUDENDAL NERVE IS COMPRESSED? OR DIAGNOSE PUDENDAL NEURALGIA?

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE AND I WISH THE BEST FOR EVERYBODY.