I fell from a seesaw when I was 5 and I remember a lot of bleeding from my private parts

Fast forward to my teens, tampons didn't even make it past 1 cm inside (vaginismus).
7 attempts to lose virginity.
Yeast infections galore led to vestibulitis symptoms (painful intercourse upon entry, stinging)
4 bartholin abcesses, lanced and drained (same spot= scar tissue)
final trigger: small infection of the bartholin gland while on borth control (yasmin). antibiotics were used too late.
Suffering from depression my entire life also lead to sensitivity to pain.
sorry if it's TMI.
But a lot of other women get pudendal neuralgia from excising the stupid bartholin gland. I am just an atypical case.