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[Carol18]

Hi my name is carol I'm 37 years, I have 1 boy 6 years old he was natural birth take me 23 hours bring him to this world, he was 8 pounds , 7 years early I was walking whit water shoes and fell Down in my button, but fine, my husband and I we like to ride bicycle but just like 3 or 4 times during summer.
When I was 20 I was doing spinning for a year .
In May 2016 I feel pain in my tailbone close to the anus , I feel a little bump I went to the family doctor and she says it's a pilonidal cyst and it is not infected so don't need surgery .
The cyst is usually located near the tailbone and can become easily infected.
Symptoms of an infected cyst include pain, reddened skin, or drainage of pus or blood.
Treatment involves drainage and surgical removal of the cyst.
So she send me antibiotics and I can't finish them because was to much for my stomach, in my case 20 years ago when I was 17 I had surgery for this because was infected, so everything was fine , but can happen again, two weeks from this I feel this horrible pressure in my anus and I went to the bathroom and the are internal hemorrhoids ,for 3 months was painful.
I notice 1 month later so many things , like symptoms uti I when to the doctor ,run a urinari test showed no infection , 2 days later I fine again , 3 weeks later again no infection , 17 days later again this time apoinment whit urologist the diagnosis IC , star diet and natural medicine and alkaline water feel great.
During the time I was whit the hem I was whit out stool softener so I get a hard horrible stool so made hem worst, so I went to the proctologist he say take fiber, stool softener ,see you in 4 weeks, he check the pilonidal cyst and say it's nothing in there maybe was the hem ,but I sure was pilonidal cyst.
During the hem I notice I can't sit to my right side when I feel more swollen the hem I fell like electric in my gluteu, I feel pressure and if my stool its a little hard or when twice a day I feel this Knife sharpin pain in my coccyx for some hours and gone, but tha was happen in 3 months like 3 times , one day like 4 weeks ago I feel like hem go and was time fo sit down correctly was inconfortable,I was driving all this time sitting in my left side I was fine watching tv in this side etc, that day I was try it to sit correct all day , I drive the car, I sit In the side walk whit my boy, everything from here was worst , that night y was whit the knife sharping pain for hours I finally feel sleep and like 3 a.m I move in my bed and in 1 minute star again for40 minutes ,my husband touch the area and made a gentle massage and I notice like distraction of the pain, made feel better, from there each time I doing bowel in minute or hours star a felling close to the area were the pilonidal cyst was but I feel inside to the anus I was believe was a hem , I went to the proctologist again and I explain all those symptom and he said that hems was a little enlarge I ask him I still whit then and he answer everybody have them he now what I mean, he apply a laser and tell retur in two months I ask him to chek elevator muscle and he touch my coccix and the muscle said was fine I not feel pain when he do that, that day did not feel pressure was fine that day, but next day was the pressure again the next week was like flare up or something in that area and nothing chance in there , right now I In stool softener since I star this 5 months ago I going every day to the bathroom whit the perfect bowel movement since Saturday I can't empty all my stool , my bowel movement chance some days no stool and I feel good from my anus , next day it's horrible because I going more the one time to the bathroom and star the pain, make stool it's my problems alterate everything ,I star felling things in the area , no clitoris area some times pressure in the vagina, most mornings good or a little feelings from there until I go the the bathroom , some times better in my bet some times not, some times good standing or not ,better thru that day o sometimes worst thru that day , I sleep good, now I star my journey whit this for find if is putendal nerve , could you please help me what kind of doctor made the diagnosis I live in Virginia, how it's the process, it's painfull, please I know you are the best doctor here , you have more information and knowledge.
PLEASe HELP ME!

[Carol18]

Why so many people read my history and don't help me , if it's my writing sorry about that, sorry for my English , can you people be merciful and help me whit information your opinions etc?.
Carol

[stephanies]

Hi,

I am sorry to read you are in so much pain. I have not experienced the symptoms you describe exactly, but I thought I would pass along the name of a doctor in the D.C. area who is very familiar with pelvic pain, including pudendal neuralgiacluneal and may be able to help you. He is Dr. Abbas Shobeiri and he practices at Inova Fairfax in N. Virginia, just outside D.C. You can us Google to find an office number for him, if you are interested.

Sincerely,
Stephanies

[Violet M]

There are a lot of pudendal neuralgia physical therapists in Virginia. http://www.pudendalhope.info/node/63#VA
You could try seeing one of them. You said when your husband massaged the area it was better afterward so maybe some myofascial release from a good PT would be helpful.

Violet