My experience and update with Dr. Marvel
Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2017 3:25 pm
I am probably posting this in the wrong section, but I didn't know where to put it.
My experience and update with Dr. Marvel. First let me say I am writing this based off of my experience and with the realization everyone has a different experience. I am also not trying to persuade anyone’s opinion of him. Nor am I saying he is the best or the worst doctor. I believe everyone should form their own decision. Ok… with that being said here is my experience.
I had my first appointment with Dr. Marvel yesterday and I realized quickly that he is not a doctor that shows empathy. In my opinion, any doctor that treats pelvic pain, PGAD, IC, PN, PNE, etc; should master the skill of being empathic. But does that make him a bad doctor, no. You just have to know going in he is not going to be that doctor that will say “I am so sorry you are going through this or I can’t imagine what it must feel like”. Moving on… He took a detailed history and asked my symptoms and went on to explain we will never be able to find the “it that caused this” stop looking for it. He believes in my case more than one element is causing my symptoms. But, I think that is the same for most of us. I explained how uncomfortable I am to be around people because I have PGAD and the constant arousal sensations. He quickly said “you’re not aroused it is a pain condition”. I replied very bluntly saying I understand that PGAD is a pain condition and not sexually. I am only trying to explain to you Dr. Marvel that my symptoms are distressing and affect my life. To change the topic, he said let me examine you and afterwards we will talk some more.
It was a typical examine using toothpicks and a special scope to look at the tissue in the vagina area. He pushed on my bladder and I said that hurts a little. Therefore, he had his nurse insert a catheter empty my bladder and inserted lidocaine. Immediately the tingling in my clitoris stopped.
I went back in his office to talk but he never once asked me did the lidocaine take the pain away. So me being me I said I don’t feel the tingling before he had a chance to continue what he was saying. He went on to say he believes I have IC, possible PN, and a I probably have a Tarlvo Cyst. He prescribed Ampitripilyne and ordered an MRI-MRN 3 T that I have to get done at Johns Hopkins.
I do not believe I have IC because the only symptom I have that could suggest IC is the urge to urinate frequently. I would say I urinate once every 2 hours, but I am also on a diuretic that causes you to pee often. When my bladder is full I do feel some pressure but that’s it. It does not hurt to pass urine and my stream is normal. But I am not a doctor and this is just the first step to possibly finding treatment that will help me. He also told mem to buy Super Strength Aloe capsules and provided me with contact information to order them. He believes with the Aloe and changing my diet IC will get better. If I even have IC.
At this stage, he doesn’t know if IC is the cause of the PGAD or if a nerve condition and or possible cyst is causing my symptom’s due to the burning in my thighs. Taking Aloe and changing my diet will not hurt me. I feel I need to do more research on IC as well because I don’t know much about it. I am hopeful the MRI he ordered will show something fixable to be the clue that ties everything together. Notice I said I am hopeful!
So, would I see him again…. Maybe, but at this time I am keeping my options open and exploring other doctors.
Oh, I almost forgot to mention he doesn’t like writing notes to excuse you from work, however I demanded a note that would allow me to work from home for at least a month. We can change my limitations as needed in the future. You have to be able to advocate for yourself and I am pretty good at doing that. I was disappointed that he wasn’t more aggressive with treating the PGAD symptoms so I could at least function.
At least I got the MRI I wanted so that is a win to me!
My experience and update with Dr. Marvel. First let me say I am writing this based off of my experience and with the realization everyone has a different experience. I am also not trying to persuade anyone’s opinion of him. Nor am I saying he is the best or the worst doctor. I believe everyone should form their own decision. Ok… with that being said here is my experience.
I had my first appointment with Dr. Marvel yesterday and I realized quickly that he is not a doctor that shows empathy. In my opinion, any doctor that treats pelvic pain, PGAD, IC, PN, PNE, etc; should master the skill of being empathic. But does that make him a bad doctor, no. You just have to know going in he is not going to be that doctor that will say “I am so sorry you are going through this or I can’t imagine what it must feel like”. Moving on… He took a detailed history and asked my symptoms and went on to explain we will never be able to find the “it that caused this” stop looking for it. He believes in my case more than one element is causing my symptoms. But, I think that is the same for most of us. I explained how uncomfortable I am to be around people because I have PGAD and the constant arousal sensations. He quickly said “you’re not aroused it is a pain condition”. I replied very bluntly saying I understand that PGAD is a pain condition and not sexually. I am only trying to explain to you Dr. Marvel that my symptoms are distressing and affect my life. To change the topic, he said let me examine you and afterwards we will talk some more.
It was a typical examine using toothpicks and a special scope to look at the tissue in the vagina area. He pushed on my bladder and I said that hurts a little. Therefore, he had his nurse insert a catheter empty my bladder and inserted lidocaine. Immediately the tingling in my clitoris stopped.
I went back in his office to talk but he never once asked me did the lidocaine take the pain away. So me being me I said I don’t feel the tingling before he had a chance to continue what he was saying. He went on to say he believes I have IC, possible PN, and a I probably have a Tarlvo Cyst. He prescribed Ampitripilyne and ordered an MRI-MRN 3 T that I have to get done at Johns Hopkins.
I do not believe I have IC because the only symptom I have that could suggest IC is the urge to urinate frequently. I would say I urinate once every 2 hours, but I am also on a diuretic that causes you to pee often. When my bladder is full I do feel some pressure but that’s it. It does not hurt to pass urine and my stream is normal. But I am not a doctor and this is just the first step to possibly finding treatment that will help me. He also told mem to buy Super Strength Aloe capsules and provided me with contact information to order them. He believes with the Aloe and changing my diet IC will get better. If I even have IC.
At this stage, he doesn’t know if IC is the cause of the PGAD or if a nerve condition and or possible cyst is causing my symptom’s due to the burning in my thighs. Taking Aloe and changing my diet will not hurt me. I feel I need to do more research on IC as well because I don’t know much about it. I am hopeful the MRI he ordered will show something fixable to be the clue that ties everything together. Notice I said I am hopeful!
So, would I see him again…. Maybe, but at this time I am keeping my options open and exploring other doctors.
Oh, I almost forgot to mention he doesn’t like writing notes to excuse you from work, however I demanded a note that would allow me to work from home for at least a month. We can change my limitations as needed in the future. You have to be able to advocate for yourself and I am pretty good at doing that. I was disappointed that he wasn’t more aggressive with treating the PGAD symptoms so I could at least function.
At least I got the MRI I wanted so that is a win to me!