Health Organization for Pudendal Education

Besides SSRIs.

I ask because ejaculation is extremely painful for me (gives me days of pain) and it keeps happening in my sleep, trying to figure out how to stop it for a while so I can have a chance to heal.

If your pelvic floor muscles are overly and irritating the nerve, a benzodiazepine like valium or clonazepam might help you sleep better. Clonazepam helped reduce the shocks I had at night and allowed me to sleep a little better. You could also try lyrica or gabapentin to reduce the nerve irritation. Some people find soma helpful.

I'm not suggesting drugs as a permanent solution though. You really want to figure out what is the underlying problem and work on that.

Violet

Hello Cade
Tramadol which is a pain medication can affect a man's ability to ejaculate in fact I have read that they prescribe it to help men prevent premature ejaculation. From my own personal experience I can confirm if I take one to two everyday for pain one of the side effects is that ejaculating becomes very difficult to achieve and sometimes impossible. However, for me it also can affect my ability to urinate if I take more than three a day.

Hello.

You can try tamsulosin. It will not affect your nerve, but it can reduce pressure in your urogenital system and make your ejaculation retrograde.